The BDSM space for trans, genderfucks,
 intersex, gender deviants, genderqueers
and their play pals.

Best of the Bay 2005 - Outsider Education

screwup: BDSM for trans people, genderqueers and their friends, presents...

Kinky dating!

Friday, January 11, 2008 from 7:00 to 9:30 PM
New College of California in San Francisco, Room 22 (2nd Floor), 766 Valencia Street (near 18th Street), San Francisco

Kinky dating will be a relaxed group discussion of the joys and frustrations of dating in and out of BDSM community. Some possible topics:

- How do I find potential partners?
- How do I broach the topic of trans/kink/specific play preferences, etc?
- How do I make the first advance as a bottom?
- How do I keep myself safe with pickup play or other play with strangers?

Bring your questions as well as your personal experiences to share! Hope to see you there...

Screwup is for trannies, genderqueers, and our friends. This event is open to all genders and will be held in Room 22 at the New College of California. Folks sometimes go out for coffee or food afterwards, so come prepared...

$0-5 donation will be accepted to cover the cost of supplies and flyers. No one turned away. The New College of California is wheelchair accessible and has gender-neutral bathrooms!

Spread the word by downloading, printing, and distributing flyers.

Please contact screwup@screwup.info if you'd like us to arrange for an ASL interpreter, to get involved, make suggestions or with any other requests.

Please use public transportation - parking near the New College of California is not easy.

If you do drive, please be considerate of the New College of California's neighbors and do not block driveways or park in blue or white zones.

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screwup is organized by anyone and everyone that's into trans & queer BDSM. If you want to get involved, sign up for the screwup mailing list and introduce yourself! Or just talk to someone at the Friday meeting.

April 2003 - BDSM 101
May 2003 - Sex work discussion
July 2003 - BDSM & the trans body
August 2003 - DYI flogger workshop
September 2003 - ?
October 2003 - Creating a truly inclusive queer play party
November 2003 - Branding workshop
December 2003 - Skill share
February 2004 - Service discussion
March 2004 - Mummification and sensory deprivation
April  2004 - Bootblacking 101
May 2004 - BDSM on a budget
June 2004 - Hands and feet workshop
July 2004 - Puppy play 101
August 2004 - Aggressive bottoms and service tops
September 2004 - Anal fun and fisting for everyone
October 2004 - Not trans enough
November 2004 - Cutting
December 2004 - Skill share
January 2005 - Pumping
February 2005 - Field trip
March 2005 - Age play
April 2005 - Science fair
May 2005 - Terror SM
June 2005 - Single tail making and cracking
July 2005 - Play piercing
August 2005 - Public sex
September 2005 - Big Folsom Party & Toy making workshop
October 2005 - Radical love
November 2005 - Rope bondage
December 2005 - Skill share
January 2006 - Caning
February 2006 - Hands-on play
March 2006 - Movie night
April 2006 - Hypnosis
May 2006 - Clips, Clamps, Clothespins, and Zippers
June 2006 - Boot and high-heel worship
July 2006 - Disabilities and kink
August 2006 - Movie night
September 2006 - Silly scenes
October 2006 - Everyday kink
November 2006 - Scenes gone wrong
December 2006 - Naughty holiday fun
January 2007 - Uncommon senses
February 2007 - GenderQueer Bondage & planning discussion
March 2007 - Vaginal and Anal fisting
April 2007 - Play piercing
May 2007 - Flogging
June 2007 - Dirty open mic
July 2007 - Gender play
Aug 2007 - Medical play
Sep 2007 - Breath play
Oct 2007 - Bootblacking revisited
Nov 2007 - When scenes go bad
Dec 2007 - Kinky crafts